When you fall in love

Disclaimer: This is my point of view. I have no other intentions.

 
Falling in love has to be one of the best feelings you'll ever come across. 

You stumble upon your other half through fate and destiny, in high school, college, university or in any part of the world, of different background, distinct personalities. It may also be a long-distance due to many unpredictable circumstances. He or she is equivalent to your family and your best friends, or you may unknowingly prioritize your relationship over your loved one.

You thought he/she means the world to you.


It took me lots of courage to get back up. The transition period from switching your life consisting of the both of the best to only yours is perhaps, one of the most difficult change you will have to make. You have loved someone for a reason, or maybe none. It doesn't really matter. When love sparks, you'll get along with each other. You take the extra miles to understand one another, tolerate and bring the best out of he/she. Similarly, your other half will make the effort to do the same to you. The greatest gift is you have had a special one in your life; a helping hand, a loyal support, a confidante, a shoulder to lean on and most of all, a warmth of love and care. Mysteriously, you fall for him/her more and more.

Sometimes, you wonder of how you will be building your future together with your other half. You will be pulling through all that it needs to lead both of you to walk down the aisle, hand in hand. Challenges make you two grow as one; you look beyond the difficulties which you are facing because you know, it's worth persevering. When you are forced to start a long-distance, you have no other options, but to hold on to it temporarily, for you both know, it takes a little more time for you to reunite. Love makes you a stronger person.

When you are torn apart on one fine (not so) day, you take a step back and reminisce all the bittersweet memories which you both share. You become braver day by day; there's no longer someone who will be comforting you when you have the worst days, no longer someone who will make sure you get back on track after you fell. It turns out to be you, as who you are. After much struggle, you learn how to cope and to be a better person, one who he/she will be regret of letting go or for not appreciating. Tears shed, but the next day will be a brighter day.

For all that it takes to walk through the past six months, it's tough, it's heart-shattering. I fell and fell for countless times, and I still do. I felt as if I am in a loom of darkness. I felt the urge to be impulsive. But, never forget that it's not an end but a starting point in the relay of your life. You will  meet many, many angels who are like the silver lining to your cloud. They are there for a reason, for you to strive for your future.

Nevertheless, be who you want to be, who you should be and who you are worth to be. Whether you are in a relationship or not, you must never change for the worse.

沉淀

回首望去，再煎熬的都跨过了，所剩的的确不再那么漫长。我知道倘若我真的放手—搏也不会落入谷底。但是，选择了坚持，再艰难还是得咬紧牙根走下去。

不要再让串珠的泪水淌下，
别再失去微笑的理由，
勿再俳徊在逝去的岁月。

坚强着，把对未来的憧憬和壮志当成精神上的寄托。

相信，雨后的彩虹会是更艳丽。

梦想，只是在转角处。

为梦想加油

每一个人都会曾经拥有过一段故事。我也不例外。

每一会锁住荧幕上的《星光大道》， 免不了的是一回回的感动，是种说不起又嵌入心中的滋味。选手们都把战场当成了他们表演的舞台，把本身的故事唱处来，我深深体会到他们所要传达的情感和经历。

曾经，我也是个爱上舞台的孩子。罕有地说起这一段故事，我会默默地踏上了时光隧道。
当时还在小学稚气的岁月，我最向往的是能够站上舞台。是一种既紧张，又有成就感，又开心的一刹那。曾经，是个爱表演的孩子——唱歌，演讲，诗歌朗诵，讲故事，我一一尝试过。说不起是什么鼎鼎大名的选手或表演者，我享受的是那种苦涩又值得回忆的过程。手上领着奖杯的时候给予我的是无限的肯定。家中摆满的奖杯不再像昔日般的闪烁，但每一回凝视着它们心中有的不只是回忆，更深厚的是骄傲。

谈起音乐，我总是擦肩而过。我爱上的是歌曲的旋律，歌词的故事，还有那无界的乐坛。还有，能够自由地玩起乐器，自弹自唱。然而，我失去的是好多的机会。长大以来，我一直都很想玩音乐，哼起歌来，做个享受音乐的孩子，但都没机会去学。有的是短短地玩起了潮州儒乐，虽然看不懂乐谱，一窍不通地玩起了音乐，还是无比的感动。很无奈地，因为一段令我很失落的小插曲，我失去了表演和继续学音乐的机会。

说起来，十八岁了，我还是守住了我隐藏着的艺术细胞。爱唱歌，爱舞蹈，爱的是能够诠释自己的机会。我渴望的是有一天，在我追梦的旅途中，能玩起音乐，开启生命中新的篇章。

梦，固然遥远，但跌跌撞撞过了一段日子之后，可能依然有那种感觉，但只有我自己会知道，当自己日后说起这一段故事，是一段连自己也被感动的日子。